Thursday

Closure

Posted by Ling on October 23, 2008

Closure is defined as the resolution of a significant event or relationship in a person’s life

When a relationship ends, it takes a lot time to get over it.  When  I wrote this post, I did not fully comprehend how difficult it is to move on and gain closure.

For a long time, I was hoping for a reunion.  Maybe, just maybe.
He would still call me.  He would still compliment me.  He was giving me false hope.  Until the day he met someone else.  Everything changed.  He stopped calling me.  He stopped saying those nice things.  He had moved on. Is it fair how he deceived me?  No.  But life is unfair.  What I think is extremely unfair is how he painted such an ugly picture of our entire relationship.

Dear You,

I did not imagine it at all.  I was not dreaming.  You just chose to forget.  Nevertheless, thank you for all the good and bad times.  I am walking away and I won’t look back.  The sadness I feel is for the forgotten past which will be buried away in a secret hiding place.  The happiness I feel is for the future which has been carefully planned out for me.  Everything will turn out just as He has planned it.  I have learnt my lesson well, but have you?

The End.

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