Saturday

Closure #2

Posted by Ling on November 15, 2008

Being the eldest of 7 children and being older than most people at the church fellowship I attend, I feel I have a reputation to uphold.  I appear fine and smile and have fun.  I rarely ever let down my guard and cry in front of people. Some people have crocodile tears…fake tears…tears to get [...]

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Thursday

Closure

Posted by Ling on October 23, 2008

Closure is defined as the resolution of a significant event or relationship in a person’s life When a relationship ends, it takes a lot time to get over it.  When  I wrote this post, I did not fully comprehend how difficult it is to move on and gain closure. For a long time, I was [...]

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Wednesday

ABBA Twist

Posted by Ling on August 27, 2008

I don’t wanna talk about the things we’ve gone through. Though it’s hurting me, now it’s history. But tell me does she kiss like I used to kiss you? Does it feel the same when she calls your name? Somewhere deep inside, you must know I miss you But what can I say when I [...]

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Wednesday

Stop Giving Me Grief #2

Posted by Ling on July 16, 2008

Contrary to popular belief, I am NOT desperately seeking for a new boyfriend. Yes, every day I am bombarded with people loved up, people getting engaged, people getting married… In fact, the more I try to not think about love, the MORE I end up thinking about it. Yes, I understand that I am turning  [...]

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Tuesday

Stop Giving Me Grief

Posted by Ling on June 24, 2008

On a good day, I cannot even remember… On a bad day, like today, it hurts like a freshly-cut wound… I can’t win. If I am still sad and crying to sleep, I get grief -  “Stop mourning.  Move on!  You still talking about that??” If I express an interest in a guy, I also [...]

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Monday

Pain

Posted by Ling on December 17, 2007

Do you remember when you were a child and when you fell, you would call out for your mummy and she would hold you in her arms and give you the best cuddle in the world and the pain would go away….?? I don’t remember that…basically because I lived with my nanny for years while [...]

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