Woah!
Posted by Ling on November 8, 2004
Woah! So much has happened recently. It’s a long story.
I was at church a couple of months ago and the Pastor preached this :-
“I have friends who are in their thirties and they are still looking for love. They complain about being single. But they’re not single because they are ugly or boring. They are only single because they DON’T give anyone that comes along a chance….”
My ears pricked as I heard this because that is SOOOOO me! “Oh nooo…I don’t wanna be some stuck-up b*tch who don’t give no decent guys a chance…” And immediately, I said a quick prayer to God promising Him that the next Christian guy that came along who made a move on me, I would definitely give them a chance.
Remember this warning I blogged about? I get introduced to a male doctor the next day – read this reminder. I specifically told him that I was only interested in friendship, nothing else.
Even though, he hadn’t revealed that he liked me more than a friend, I wrote in my Personal Diary :-
On drive to Chinatown…compliments…”pretty girl”…I find it so difficult to accept compliments from Mr Geek… I don’t want to hurt this poor boy so it is probably best if we never get involved…I guess I’m just gonna leave it in God’s hands…If I am supposed to be with him, then we will be together…
So next time we hang out, I make sure my other friends are there too because I don’t like to mislead guys. But that night, as I was driving him to the train station, he reveals his feelings for me and asks me to give him a chance to get to know him better, with specific requests to spend time with me ALONE!!! EEEEEK!!!!!!!! NOOOO!!!!
“This is just a phase…it will pass…I’m really ugly and fat!!!”
“Just give me a chance!”
My Personal Diary says this “I feel fat n ugly…why does he like me?”
I actually rejected him a few times, but he was persistent. He claims that “Some things are worth fighting for…”
There were so many reasons why I am reluctant to be a girlfriend. Sometimes I feel I don’t deserve love…
My family warmed to him before I did. So after much prayer, I have decided to give him and give myself a chance!
Previously, when he used to compliment me, I would laugh in his face because it sounded so wrong!! But now, I have learnt to accept compliments because maybe I am pretty…
In conclusion : I am Mr Geek’s girlfriend.
seanafunk said,
This Shawn guy is really blessed!
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enoch_hlh said,
i shouldnt really be a light bulb in the comment box innit? :shysmile: but being your xanga’s biggest fan i have missed your long posts so much la… makes me comfortable reading long posts like this 1… keep it up LL jeh jeh! (by the way, this has just gone over half of your own record of 5055 words! :p)
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Jubiltz said,
WOW CONGRATS! That’s soooo fricken cool! I’m happy for both of you. I’ll comment more later so don’t remove this. I’m just extremely busy at the moment. I can relate to some of you comments and would like to respond. But you go girl!!!!
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seanafunk said,
Im not a STALKER! grr……
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SueMoo said,
YES! the two sexiest ppl finally together.
At least now wont have to make excuses for why lovely bro is always in glasgow when he used to visit me once a term last year .. haha
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SueMoo said,
‘ So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it for the glory of God ‘ ( 1 corinthians 10:31 )
:love: love u both! yay
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thebiggee said,
:heartbeat:
:love: Congratulations to you both! Yes God is very facinating with His plans for us all! We shall never know what He has in store for us. All we can do is keep praying and asking God for guidance. Prayer really works/ helps I tell ya! 
All the best to you both! :coolman:
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ice_ray said,
:goodjob: CONGRATS!!!! hehe such a good post! its like somethin u would expect from a chick flick! :p hehe Will pray for use!!!! :sunny:
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thepianogenius said,
Ling….CONGRATS!!! really happy for you and how things are taking shape in your life. i’m so glad u’ve decided to put God in ur life and…may God bless this wonderful relationship! mwah!, Ozzie
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seanafunk said,
I resent everyone kissing her, and the fact her blog has more comments than mine……… booooo
Heheheh
Shawn is truly blessed!
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weemel said,
WHOO HOO!!!!!!!!!! =) i don’t think i was the only one to see it coming and exclaim “FINALLY!!” =p
Praying that you will grow deeper in God first and then each other….
Your mum must be elated!!
MUAH =)
no excuse not to come to cell group now…..
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scottish_banana said,
Wow…..Ling”Bridget Jones” Tung has found her man!!!!Thats actually very weird..Like in the film, Bridge and whats his name go through the kinda same situation as u guys do!Well,im truely happy for u!Jealous but happy!Hes no a bad lookin laddie by the way!Seems sound enough too!Dresses very smart everytime i have seen him!Good catch!What gym he go to?Ive just started going again so perhaps we can be spottin partners if he goes to the same one!Anyhow,good luck with the relationship and remember that all rellys have their ups and downs so give it a chance before u do anythin rash!
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seanafunk said,
Thank you!
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Willcloud said,
Awww..Ling and shawn!!…you two make a nice couple nice one!!.Will
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cheesecakelai said,
keke… ho sweet ah~! ^o^
be happi lah, and I’ll be praying for u ga lah~!
keke… ho cutie as well~! ^o^
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sor_paw_ellen said,
hey ling!!! Good to read your blog… It’s cool the way you got together… prayers really do work as said by G.. It’s good to have God in the centre of relationship. i’ll be praying for ya… hope to meet Shawn one day..
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